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Answers-somewhere: going up from very low state
Posted August 29, 2011
by Olga
In my Russian blog, I have a tradition: when I reply somewhere to an interesting question, I then repost these answers to my blog, to share it with my blog readers, too.
I want to do it now, too: in a recent post in an open group in FB, it was asked:
“Hi everyone. I’d like some advice or ideas. A friend of mine has been going through a trying time because her husband has cancer. Now he’s announced that he’s giving up and she’s pretty sure he’s about to pass on. I want to do or get something nice for her but just not sure what? She’s very conscious and understands that we live on in the nonphysical, that all has purpose, how the Law of Attraction works, etc. but it still is obviously a very difficult time, especially because they have children not yet full grown.
Thanks…”
(If you have any advice, send a message to Pollyanna Jitterbug Jones or reply in that post.)
I replied:
Actually, with this attitude he may get well as he’s determined not to try to change the physical circumstances.. For them both the attitude that can be taken – no matter what the circumstances will be, they want to feel the way they want to feel, so they both may want to do some playing in order to improve the way they feel about the situation.
That this situation actually is for them to stop being dependent in their feeling on the physical circumstances. As Bashar says “Circumstances don’t matter, only my state of being matters; what state of being do I prefer?”, it works like rebooting, it may be done several, many times a day, and then the exercises can be done to come and hold on to the state of being they prefer. You can send them to my coaching, I could work with them.
This is a very effective exercise, good especially for the low states, I did it to get out of severe panic, and in hours I got out to very sure and positive feeling. Of course, this didn’t move all at once, but when the panic came back, I did it again, and again. After a period of doing that I attracted a healer, that helped me greatly, and she said, if not this my work, no one would be able to help me out. This is the exercise: http://www.think-to-feel-better.com/blog/2010/12/twist-on-focus-wheeling-process/
I’ll say now a very important (for me) insight I had when making my way through (seemingly towards) some very frightening circumstances: “I don’t know what it will be, but I know that anyway I want to feel better. I also know that circumstances cannot prevent me from anything that is in my vibration. But I don’t know what vision to hold on to. But I do know that I want to feel good. So I’ll just turn to improving the way I feel now, finding just one thought at a time that makes me feel better now, because that’s the way anyway.”
Meaning, for her to hold on to the vision of her husband getting well – she may be afraid to do so, because she may be afraid, that if he dies anyway, it may put her down way harder. But if she just takes it to no matter, what it is, she just wants to feel better NOW, then one thought at a time she may improve the way she feels NOW, starting from below, not from the goals and visions. This I would anyway recommend. And for him – Guided Meditations CD by AH may soothe him – again, anyway, no matter what his decision is and no matter what he is going to.
Also, come in the Vortex to today’s AH workshop – you’ll get the answer straightly from Abraham. :)
What would you say?
