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Morning wisdom

I so love what I’m doing.. Sometimes my morning trying to find, why I am so frustrated and what to do about it, brings me such wonderful insights. :)

Here’re two pieces of focus delights that are still in the drafts

(the point in focus delights is not to convince myself in anything, but to find the pathways, supported by my Source):

Step 13














More thoughts for this step:

Step 14








More thoughts for this step:

and one more, from another FD:

Step 11












More thoughts for this step:

What do you feel? :)

I found such a good process!

I called it “Trampoline”. I was just trying to find a feeling place for a financial desire (just because when I find its feeling place, its “physical feeling inside me”, as Klaus Joehle teaches, then I feel so good! peaceful, calm, I can then ponder on it and really see why I feel so good there.. I love it), but it felt uncomfortable. And hearing Abraham’s new motto “go general”, I applied it there.. to discover a new process, with a surprise-miracle in the end!

I got so excited, that I already did two of these processes:

They’re with numbers, as they’re, too, of those self-coaching pages one can do to raise the vibration and feel better.

Here’re some more processes I recently added:

The Sweet Having Map is one of the processes I love the most. It gives me such a warm feeling…. maybe because I really love chocolate. :)

When to act, how it feels


(“Abraham – At what point should he take action?”: video)

Reading now

Bashar: Blueprint for Change : A Message from Our Future

I’m reading it little by little, very heavy for me. It feels like on every sentence I experience .. an upgrade to another level of me. :)

“Do you know personally, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that the being you desire to be, you are capable of being?

Yes, I know that.

All right. Then start using that certainty to your advantage. If you know you have the capability of imagining what you would like to be, understand, as we have said, that your ability to imagine what you would like to be is your ability to be that person, that version of you.

If you have the ability to conceive how you want to be, at the moment you conceive it, you are that person. But when you deny your imagination your reality and say, “Okay, I’ve imagined what I would like to be; now what do I have to see, what do I have to do, to become this idea?” you are placing all the steps in your way that it’s taking for you to get there.

Your ability to imagine that person is being that person — because if you weren’t of that vibration, you wouldn’t be able to picture it!

The events in your life can only be 100% reflective of the person you have decided you are. Allow yourself to recognize that your ability to even imagine there is another way to be, is being the other way.

All you need is a basic trust that at any given moment you have what you need; you know everything you need to know to be who you are being in that moment. As soon as you redefine who you are, you will know the things that person needs to know, regardless of what you’re seeing around you.

But these blocks within us — what are these blocks?

It is only your assumption that there is some mysterious “how” that needs to be known before you will act in the manner you desire.

You don’t have to wait for a reason to be happy in order to know you prefer to be happy. Create the effect of being happy, and you will attract into your lives all of the causes to support the happiness you have created … just because you want to. And just because you say so. Because you are the creators of your reality, there doesn’t need to be any other why or how. What you say goes!”

New tool: focus delight on love

4. Focus delight (love, starting very low)*new*

A very thorough focus workout.

If you have a dream, that feels painful, you may try and work your way up the vibrational scale with this focus delight. The rule is one: choose which options feel better. That’s all. :)

New tools for relief, power, lovely mood and high vibration

I’m continuing to realize my dream. :)

I planned to call it all Self coaching pages, and the vibration raising exercises below – Focus Gym, but Self enjoying pages and Focus Delight sing more in my heart, even though maybe they’re not that self-explanatory. I’m looking forward to the clarity on this subject. :)

The idea is always the same:

…As you reach for what feels better – you’re on your way,
because if it feels better to you, it’s never a mistake,
if it feels better to you, it’s not the wrong way,
if it feels better to you, it’s Source calling you to completion
of that which you are. — Abraham-Hicks

And so, these exercises, games, delights, whatever :), are designed for you (and me) to easily raise the vibration in a friendly, supporting environment of better-feeling thoughts. They are designed to let us feel more our call of Source, feel more Who We Have Become with all our preferences, to feel our path to everything we desire and prefer.

1. Focus Delight (general)
2. 3-3-3 (visibility, security, openness)*new*
3. 3-3-3 clean form*new*

When my mind needs a break

..I put this:


(“LifeFlow – Deep relaxation”: video)

close my eyes, relax.. and in 14 minutes (6 minutes to enter the alpha state and then 8 minutes of actual meditation to enjoy it), I feel renewed and refreshed. I start feeling calm and peaceful. “Issues” that occupied my mind before, stop being so relevant for how I feel. Life becomes easier. :)

For me these LifeFlow meditations were also very useful when I was in a very loaded workshop: in longer breaks I went to my room and listened. It helped me to release the tension and get back on track really quick.

Calm music for a weekend

It’s a playlist of nice, pleasant, relaxing songs for a weekend:

click here to listen to them on YouTube

heard today on Russian Moscow Relax FM radio. If (not so many) ads in Russian in between will not annoy you, you may try and listen to it here. It is my absolutely favorite radio. :) Especially on Friday eves..

Focus delights: My dream, my dream is coming into fruition :)

Dear all,

These days my dream is coming true, and I’m so happy…

When I heard Nicole Bird speaking of JigsawBox and the idea of taking coaching online, this idea started brewing inside me… I knew it was my path, something of it…

Then in meditations, in all kinds of a-ha, the idea became clearer and clearer…. I got more and more glimpses of it… and TA-DA!! It all became ready!! The clarity came to me, the resources came to me, and it became possible, to create what I now will call “Focus Delights”.

In the beginning I wanted to call it “Focus Gym”, but “Focus Delight” sings better in my heart.

It is based on many things, mostly on my Contrasting technique, I put it in a post for you.

The idea is, that comparing, which thought feels better, ..I won’t speak for you, I’ll say for myself – comparing, which thought feels better, I learn to listen to my feelings; I train myself to thoughts that feel better and not what’s just “true”. I’m training myself to hear that call of Source.

And I’m also raising my vibration. I start feeling more confident, more sure, secure, blessed, worthy, loved, interested,.. depending on where I started of course. :) Sometimes it feels like a whole focus workout. :)

In short, try it! :) And tell me what you think.
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Here’s the first Focus Delight.

I personally love it. :)
I understood on it what Abraham said about a dream that’s tended to, through vibration: “it’s my dream, my vision, my life flow, my ideas, my spank, my vitality, my reason to get out of bed, my feeling of life, my thing to focus upon, my gift, my love, my joy, my fun, my fullness”.

I’m so happy. :)

P.S. Now I added a lighter mobile version of focus delights. Enjoy :) as much as I do :)

Contrasting technique

This is chapter 2 from my book 10 Nice Mind Tricks To Allow More Money Into Your Life: A Paradigm Shift to Coming Home.

A Nice Mind Trick #2 – Contrast

“He had heard people speak contemptuously of money:
he wondered if they had ever tried to do without it.”

— W. Somerset Maugham

Sometimes, we just want to put accents in the right places.

When we’re starting to visualize us having a million dollars, we start having some awkward feelings, like “not deserving”, like “all evil” etc.

In such a case, try to do the following:

Write on a piece of paper:

I don’t have any money.

or

I have one million dollars.

Now start with the first thought, thinking of all the consequences of that and trying to feel which nuances of feelings it is awakening in you.

Not so good, I suppose? ;)

Now turn over to the second thought. Imagine yourself in a situation when you would know you have the million dollars. For example, your bank would be telling you it’s the current sum on your account.

What do you feel?

Are you feeling warmth spreading up in your soul, relaxing away all that was contracted by that dreadful first thought? Soothing, smoothing… do you feel safe now? Free? Powerful? (If not, go to that first thought again and then come back here; do you now feel the difference?)

…Now we see that one million dollars differently, don’t we?

Instead of placing our focus on some weird things we’d be unhappy with, we now see the beauty of this state, feel relaxed… that all our bills can be paid… that we can buy things we want… that our rent is covered… that we can always buy food (did you clearly see that with the first thought it wasn’t possible?)… that we can do all day what we want… plenty of time… with that book we’ve always wanted to finish… with those friends we’ve always wanted to spend more time with… with ourselves… with our thoughts…

Now let’s extend it a little farther from that safe state: let’s get to some fine details!!

We can now dine in fine restaurants… with beautiful music… we can buy the best things for our loved ones… we can come home with gifts every day… we can afford all the courses, all the books we’d want :) … hire any specialist to help us with implementing our ideas…

What else?

From that safe state, make a list, enjoy having, enjoy basking in these fine feelings…

…Mike Dooley once said: “Your dreams are here for a purpose: they remind you of what’s possible.” I can almost feel as someone reading this, could be thinking now: “yeah, possible – for someone else. Or not in my circumstances…” What can I say… It’s a belief, too. What do you prefer to believe in?

Some more thoughts to ponder on:

“When you think a new thought, entertain a new dream, or mentally choose a new goal, your thoughts “leave” you and go out, in every direction, to the farthest corners of the planet. They carry a life force all their own – like ripples created when a pebble is tossed into a pond. You can’t change this… but YOU CAN use it.” – Mike Dooley

“The Universe here…

Question:  Do you realize…

that for the simple, yet mind blowing, fact

that you’re even “HERE”…

you’re deserving of ALL else?” – Mike Dooley

Now decide which one of the two thoughts you choose, and mark it:

I don’t have any money.

or

I have one million dollars. -> better

What do you feel?

 

Behind the scenes:

1. With auto-training, people quickly learn: to relax, it’s better to contract the muscles first, and only then release them and relax. Ultimately, it gives a deeper relaxation.

2. When you switch between these two thoughts, you can feel as something in you contracts and expands. It’s an interesting feeling by itself, isn’t it?

And even more interesting is the ability to better immerse in the good sides of our goal… They say, we should concentrate on what we want, not on what we don’t want. So in this game we suddenly better see what it is that we want. And why we actually want this.

3. At the end of the exercise, we immerse in the fine details… in the high perspective… but then the syndrome of “reality” can hit us really hard. We’ve heard too many opinions on why this is “impossible”. That’s why I think it’s important to hear at that exact time something that our Inner Self would probably say to us, should we give it a chance to speak…

4. When we choose the “better” thought at the end, it does something strange with the mind. Choose honestly, looking at both thoughts, and when you make your choice… it feels like we claim something. Like it clears for us and for the Universe what it is that we want.

It feels like earlier we were …afraid to claim it. Is it like this for you?

They always say, we should clearly see what we want. Not just “as much money as I can get”, but some clear goals. It seems that this choice does clarify something, for all sides involved.

5. Try an advanced method: first, see, that you’re always safe and secure, anyway. That The Universe answers all your needs anyway. And then visualize having 1 million dollars as a way to have fun: see which things for a fun you can do with it.

“Only when pressed with darkness, can you begin to
seek the light. And how could you understand your
authority… if you had not first relinquished it? How
could you find your way, if you had not first strayed.
Now, your experiments with darkness, limits, and fear
have long outgrown their use. It’s time to wake up…
to remember… to know… that

YOU ARE FAR MORE
than the role you’ve been playing.
YOU ARE
the light,
the power,
the way…
For whom
ALL THINGS
are possible.” – Mike Dooley