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Connecting the dots:
“So really what we’re asking you to do, and it’s an annoying word, but it has such powerful resonance at the very core of your being, is to trust the process. To trust your Inner Being. To trust that where you are is fine. To acknowledge there is no wrong doing on your part. That there’s no misunderstanding or no misapplication of a process. There is no recovery from something that is amiss. There’s just you, in this moment, harmonizing with the resonating blending with the Energy of Who You Are. Softly acknowledging that it’s a big capacity. And in acknowledging that big capacity of this Energy, being pleased with where you are touching it and what it is achieving.
Here’s a way you could look at it that would be very pleasing to us: Standing, like your Inner Being, in your Vortex, utterly knowing the Well Being of you and knowing it so powerfully and you being so close in the vicinity of it that you can’t not know it. In other words, we know it so much that you just got to know it. And if you don’t know it, it’s coz you’re overthinking it. We just want you to know you’re close enough. You’re close enough. In other words, easy does it. Close enough and trust that Source within you. The Source within you, this Vortex, has got you. It’s got your back. It’s got your front. It’s got your past. It’s got your present. It’s got your future. It IS you. In other words, it’s real-time, vibrational. It knows all of the manifestations that are coming. It knows every step along the way. It could lay it all out for you brilliantly. It knows every rendezvous that you’ll have with every single person. It knows where you’ve been. It knows where you’re going. It knows Who You Are. It knows what you want. It knows where you are in relationship to what you want. It know that path of least resistance to get you to where you want to be. It knows all of those things. The Source within you knows all of those things. And because you can’t just hear it all spelled out this red hot minute, you choose to think that you ought to be doing something different than what you’re doing and we want to tell you: what you are doing is enough. It’s enough. It’s all you can do, and it’s enough. It’s all you can do, and it’s enough. Trust the process, it will just keep evolving.” ~ Abraham-Hicks
(“Bashar – How to get there”: video)
one of my favorite Bashar’s clips.. “Everyone goes to heaven.” :)
“If you focus upon something negative it does not necessarily mean that the negative aspect will become ever stronger / ’more negative’. It means the negative aspect will develop towards its own healing / integration: however it is the nature of life that what we perceive to be negative increases towards this point of resolution. This is because to integrate / resolve anything we must first come to understand it, which is achieved through exploring it – through diving into it.
The key point to understand in this is that something becoming worse in the moment can be the best path towards it becoming better in the long term. Through this understanding it is possible to begin to deprogram yourself from the socialized reaction that leads us to go to a place of fear the moment anything seems to be going wrong. Often people ask for a positive change in their life and as soon as it starts unfolding they put the brake on as the face of what is being moved towards initially appears negative. To release this reaction is the process of coming to trust in the unfolding of your own life.” ~ Story Waters
“To control is to be blind to the beauty of unfolding” ~ Story Waters
(“Abraham-Hicks – Magic Wand, 1 of 2”: video)
(“Abraham-Hicks – Magic Wand, 2 of 2”: video)
An absolutely amazing segment. For me it’s an entire workshop in itself: it addresses a complete cycle in deliberate creation, so many clarifying moments:
* why do we want to do it;
* doing it for ourselves instead of doing it to fix something in others;
* not trying to acquire a better feeling thanks to some physical actions, but purely by a vibrational work;
* moving to a better feeling not thinking of possible physical actions that can be taken to achieve the “goal” of fixing the reality so that we look at it and feel better;
* moving to a better feeling thought by focusing on emotions;
* making it all about ourselves and our better feeling;
* when a physical manifestation comes, not becoming dependent on this physical event, still tending to the vibration,
etc.
Recent AH saying “it’s the emotional manifestation to go for”, goes so well with Bashar’s
“Circumstances don’t matter.
Only my state of being matters.
What state of being do I prefer?”
Two clips for you to refresh the message:
(“Abraham Hicks – Emotion is the Manifestation”: video)
(“Bashar – Circumstances Don’t Matter Only State of Being Matters”: video)
So the tool is very simple yet very, very powerful: to take a walk, and on the walk continuously ask yourself, out loud!:
“Circumstances don’t matter.
Only my state of being matters.
What state of being do I prefer?”
allowing your mind to go to all kind of subjects in your life, let it flow, but continuously ask yourself that question, out loud, and feel the “reboot” happening inside when you reply with the feeling – of the state of being that you prefer.
Do you feel guilty about not being grateful for what you’ve got? Ease up upon yourself, this is pretty much logical!
AH say, if you can easily appreciate, appreciate. But if you can’t, don’t force it upon yourself (and don’t feel guilty), just go general :)
I remember that it was always a tough task for me, to look for pleasing things when I wasn’t in the mode, it was annoying to turn into the direction of even looking for a pleasing thing. And I didn’t understand why and either tried to force it (rarely), or just gave up on the idea, trying to feel better in some other ways.
But I didn’t understand, why it is so bad for me. And then AH in one of their recent LIVEs explained, that when we’re trying to become too specific (positively!) on a subject we’re on a low vibe about, then the opposite and of it is activated, since it’s our most active vibration, and we raise all the resistance on the topic. While if we go general in such a case, we don’t activate that low end, and then we can go to generally positive more and more until we diffuse the resistance enough that the pleasing things start to jump into our sight by themselves, and then appreciating them becomes easy. :)
“I feel fearful, why?
I’m afraid things won’t go my way, why?
Because I have a belief, that “this is just not how things work”, and so it is hard for me to believe, that things will go as I want them to go this time, because it’s not a usual way. (It’s not that things don’t work specifically for me, it’s that there’s a certain way things tend to go – objectively).
But what if “the way things work” is different on different levels on my vibration?
And what if they can go accordingly to my preferences now, when I myself gave them (the preferences) more value?
What if I could experience more things opening to me, more opportunities than “normally are”, more things going to my pleasure?
I think it could be quite logical.
I love this life. :)
And I love myself. So smart……….amazing!” :))
..this quote is one of the most helpful for me.
Always, when I was listening to the guru that said “research your market and find what they need and what would succeed, and then follow it” – I felt resistance to it, I felt it wasn’t quite my path. I loved it so much more when Bashar said, “there is no one-side coin in this Universe: if you want to do something, then there’re people that want it in this exact way you want to create it” (not a precise quote, but still :))
And this quote below so clarifies it all..
Here it is:
“You can have a potentially wonderful business
and feel fearful
or you can have a potentially wonderful business
and feel hopeful.
And the difference between fearful and hopeful
makes the difference between
how fast it will be a wonderful business.
You could choose a business that almost everybody fails at
and you could take an emotional journey where you think you will succeed,
and in the business that almost everybody fails at
you could have an ENORMOUS SUCCESS
because you took an emotional journey
and got yourself in the place of expectation” ~ AH
A transcript by Bashar, absolutely amazing. :)
I’m reposting it wherever I can. :)
Q: I’d like to talk a little bit more about the technology of living the dream – this waking dream.
B: Technology! All right.
Q: (Laughing) And I was here a couple of weeks ago when you talked about how you live in ecstasy all the time on your planet, and I … this month, I have not earned any money and I…
B: What have you earned?
Q: Well… I’ve been surfing a lot.
B: All right. What have you earned?
Q: What have I earned?
B: Yes.
Q: I’ve earned… to feel at peace about it.
B: Thank you.
Q: I don’t feel any fear about that.
B: Thank you!
Q: And I want to continue in that mode.
B: Go ahead.
Q: But then I start feeling like… well, I just payed my rent today and…
B: All right.
Q: And now there’s this fear that crops up, it’s like I’m afraid that I can’t sustain surfing and just doing stuff and going through the motions on a daily basis because I’m starting to go into fear about the future, and about not having…
B: What future?
Q: Ah…
B: Can you show it to me?
Q: Okay then, using it up in this present and not having…
B: Oh! Do you have what you need right now in the present?
Q: Well…
B: Do you have right now, what you need in the present?
Q: Okay. Yes.
B: Then why should the next present be any different?
Q: Um… oooh!
B: All right.
Q: Ooooh! (Makes funny sounds of realization and everyone laughs)
B: No better reason have I heard! Now, if I may say so again, understand that what you are exploring is, in and of itself, its own separate idea. You do not create partial realities. Do you follow me?
Q: No.
B: You create whole realities.
Q: Whole realities.
B: You do not create partial realities. One reality is not a lesser part of another greater reality.
Q: I don’t really understand.
B: All right. In other words, the idea, in and of itself that you do not ever need to worry about being abundant is, in and of itself, its own idea. The idea of not worrying about ever being abundant – except now and then – is not the same reality. It is its own reality. It carries its own patterns, its own timing, its own unfoldment. It has nothing to do with the reality of always being abundant. Always being abundant – except every now and then – is its own idea. It is not a half way manifestation of the idea of always being abundant. It is its own total, complete reality. Do you follow me?
Q: Are you saying that if I… yes, I think you’re saying that if I create the reality that I’m abundant only now and then, then I will live in that reality.
B: Yes. That is its own reality.
Q: So, what I’m saying is that there are negative thought forms in me, if you would call them that, that are still wanting me to live in some kind of reality of less than total abundance.
B: But understand that the idea that you have negative thought forms in you, that wish you to live that way, is also its own idea. Every – now you may certainly take me quite literally! – EVERY IDEA…
Q: Ouch.
B: Oh… (whispers) is a complete idea.
Q: Right.
B: Now, I do not have to underline this many, many, many times, but I will: Complete! Complete. Its own complete reality! Every idea that you consider to be simply a variation of an idea is not a variation in the sense that it still contains the original idea; it is its own complete idea. And therefore you experience it as your own complete reality. The idea that you have these negative thoughts is its own reality, its own idea; and will be created flawlessly, because you are a completely flawless creator.
Q: Well, this morning… see, it wasn’t my idea…
B: Oh, yes it was.
Q: But this morning you see, I espoused what you are saying to a friend. Like, I…
B: That was this morning.
Q: This morning I was…
B: Another idea.
Q: I told her of my abundance and she said, “Well, I hope you have good karma to always be able to be abundant like that, but I think you have to go to work, and slave,” and you know I…
B: All right. But what allowed you to accept that – to change your mind and go along with that reality, instead of the one that you felt?
Q: I didn’t. I felt really strong about my reality.
B: All right.
Q: But I feel like these are little chinks that keep chipping away at…
B: One more time! One more time. Each idea is separate. Each idea that is separate always forms a separate physical reality. If you believe there is a reality in which there are chinks, that is the reality.
Q: So, if someone comes into my sphere that has negativity like that…
B: Understand that you, in creating your positive reality, simply recognize that you are able in that way to share and exchange with any other individual, positive and/or negative, as they greet you. But understand that all you will return in that way is the reality you know yourself to be. What has their belief got to do with you?
Q: Well, that… maybe that’s the purpose of it. I feel their belief penetrating into my…
B: Then that is an idea, which creates your reality. The fact that you feel that they can penetrate and undermine what you believe – what you know to be true about yourself – is the reality you have created. Do you see how very clear and simple it is? Whatever you are experiencing as your physical reality is what you believe about yourself.
Q: So then I can keep reaffirming positive things about myself.
B: There is no need to. Again, the idea that you need to keep reaffirming implies that you do not feel it is stable to begin with. Once is enough. Do you follow me?
Q: Well…
B: If you know, without at shadow of a doubt, what your name is – do you need to walk around all day reminding yourself, because you might forget? Or do you take it for granted that you know your name?
Q: I know my name, but I don’t understand how…
B: But, but, but. “I know this, but…” That is another idea.
Q: How do I get it down to just one idea?
B: It is one idea. Each and every moment that you create time to exist; you are always creating one idea for you to experience – each and every moment.
Q: So, I should keep choosing…
B: Not should… how do you feel?
Q: I can keep choosing to be the positive idea.
B: Yes you can, if you wish.
Q: A positive, pleasant, idea.
B: But understand again, it is not a matter of reaffirming – you simply know that you are a positive idea.
Q: I know. Ah ha.
B: Ah ha. And why not? Can you answer that?
Q: Okay, so now I’ve had the experience of that, I’ll have to reaffirm it for the next time, is that it?
B: There is no reaffirming.
Q: But I don’t experience that!
B: That’s another idea that you have – that you do not experience it.
Q: (Laughing) Okay.
B: Understand that the idea of allowing yourself to continually exist in a state of ecstasy is knowing – knowing – that you do not have to reaffirm it. In other words, believing is seeing. Your reality, what you consider to be your solid reality, is only what you believe it should be.
Q: I can feel in my body when something is right.
B: Yes.
Q: Well, I’ve been feeling…
B: All right. We are leading to the next phase. Go on. I know what is coming.
Q: Yes? (Laughing) Well, I talked about this the last time I was here, and the best example is that for a long time I’ve been feeling that I need a new car. I’ve been really feeling that – I’ve been feeling that abundance and that faith. But I don’t have it… that is not physically the situation.
B: So what?
Q: So what.
B: Yes. So what?
Q: Well, I’d like proof! Of that which I feel to be…
B: Oh, proof! Thank you! There it is! “If I do not get the proof I exactly expect to get, I will not allow myself to know who I am.” Expectation: the most limiting of all limitations.
Q: Ooh, yes! I can tell you I’ve been noticing that.
B: Oh, very good.
Q: I have been very disappointed in myself…
B: You have been creating expectations; therefore you have been creating disappointment. The idea of expectation, in and of itself, creates disappointment.
Q: I’ve noticed that.
B: Very good. Then realize how you are getting proof of the fact that you are creating your reality exactly according to your beliefs.
Q: Ah ha.
B: Understand that the quote/unquote skeptic, that wishes to say, “I told you so,” is getting exactly what they said.
Q: That is a strong part of me – it’s very ingrained.
B: That is also an idea! (AUD: laughter)
Q: Oh! Oh, you are so great!
B: No. You are so great.
Q: Oh, thank you.
B: Thank you. Now, allow me to say simply that the idea you call proof, in thatway, will always simply be what you are willing to believe about yourself. Therefore, if you simply believe, if you simply know – which is even, in a sense, easier than believing – simply know that you have every idea in your reality that exactly needs to be there to allow you to recognize the perfect and perfectly timed unfoldment of your life as you have chosen to live it, then you will allow yourself to live through all the ideas you are now holding back. And then afford yourself the opportunity to see that when you take it for granted that you are always functioning perfectly, that your life physically will reflect it.
Q: Is one of the ideas to unfold all those ideas I will be living?
B: Life itself, living itself, is the unfoldment of all of those ideas.
When you recognize that whatever occurs within your physical life is the unfoldment of those ideas, then you will see them work for you, rather than against you. Because you will be willing to accept whatever occurs as the unfoldment of those ideas, and not something off-track. You cannot be off-track – until you create the idea in your reality, that you are off-track. And then that is what you see. Because that is what you are creating. It is still flawless creation. You are creating the idea you are out of control, and that is what you get. Therefore you are still in control.
Q: I like the way that you are so definite about it.
B: Oh, thank you.
Q: I would like to walk around with that kind of sense of conviction…
B: Go ahead! Go ahead. Do not put a but on the end of this sentence! (AUD: laughter)
Q: I’m not going to put a but at the end. I’m just saying that I would like to walk around with that kind of conviction.
B: All right. Would you do me a favor?
Q: Yes.
B: Are you sure?
Q: I will do you a favor.
B: Thank you.
Q: I am happy to serve you.
B: Oh! Thank you. As we are happy to serve you.
Q: Yes.
B: Now, with the same degree of definiteness that you are willing to serve us, allow yourself to serve All That Is by taking it for granted that as a part of All That Is, you are automatically supported. Do you follow me?
Q: I just realized that you are so much bigger, more powerful, more true…
B: What?
Q: I feel that you…
B: What? What!?
Q: What I feel is that all…
B: Do you realize that in your vernacular, at this moment – if we may be allowed to play around with a word – that you are insulting us? You are telling us that we now can no longer be of service to you – because we are no longer equal. We cannot share anymore – because you view us as so much greater than yourself. You are removing yourself from the sharing of the equality of our vibration.
Q: Hhmm.
B: You are pushing us away, by deifying us. You are removing yourself from our vibration. You are creating us to remove ourselves from yours, because we no longer see eye to eye.
Understand that our service to you is only to reflect that which you already contain. Understand that if you can perceive the idea of that greatness, that power, that assurance, that definiteness within us, it is because you already must contain it – or you would not be able to perceive it. As you say – it takes one to know one.
You cannot perceive that which you do not contain – for you would not recognize it if it were to smack you in the face. Do you follow me?
Q: Yes.
B: It is very simple. That which you perceive – you are. That is why, if you perceive love you become love; and if you perceive hate, you become hate – and support either side. Now, my perception, I do not just mean a simple observation, but the willingness to feel that the ideas you do observe, positive and negative, are something that must impinge themselves upon the reality you know yourself to be – where you feel they have control over you in that way and where you wish to play victim and elevate all nature around you as more powerful than you – you are at the very beginning of what you term to be the creation of your religions and the creations of your government upon your planet.
You are taking the responsibility for your life, for your fears, which you are not willing to face, and giving them to someone else to take care of for you.
You are deifying. Making yourself less than you really know yourself to be. Always do we wish to serve you through unconditional love and sharing. There is no way to share with someone who does not perceive themselves to be equal. This will be true for any idea you call a relationship. Do you follow me?
Q: (Speaking in a whisper) Yes.
B: What?
Q: Yes.
B: No need to cower. I am not scolding you! (AUD: laughter) I am sharing with you. Now, first of all, how do you feel?
Q: (Laughing) Cowering.
B: All right. Then that is your choice. I have now given you an opportunity to feel the reality of cowering before the deity that you have created. (AUD: laughter)
B: How do you like it? Not very pleasant is it?
Q: No! It’s not!
B: Thank you! Then I will thank you not to deify us. Therefore we will not need in that way to reflect your cowering back to you – so that you will feel it so strongly. Feel equal! Be bold! Live and breath the air that you have created. Does it not feel wonderful? Have you not the same right to life as any consciousness within creation!? Yes, no, maybe?
Q: Yes.
B: All right. Period. Yes. Period. Say, “Why not?” … Go ahead.
Q: Why not? I… I’m…
B: Ah, ah, ah. One moment.
Q: I’m wondering why …
B: One moment please. Will you do me another favor?
Q: Yes.
B: All right. Say two words: say, “Why not?”
Q: WHY NOT!?
B: Very good! Now, can you in all honesty – in all honesty – give me a reason, why not? Can you give me a reason why you do not deserve ecstasy — any reason that you really feel is an honest reason. Taking into account the incredible variety and diversity within all of creation. Each experiencing its own path, its own life, its own creations, its own portions of that which it is and knows itself to be as the creator. Can you give me any reason – truly any reason – that if you should ask yourself at any time, “Why?” that you cannot say, “Why not?”
Q: No.
B: Thank you. Then understand that the only – the only! – reason that you create the “Why?” or “How can I?” is by judging yourself to be less than what you are. Which is nothing less than All That Is. How do you feel?
Q: I’m trying to experience myself as All That Is.
B: What? What, what, what?
Q: I AM experiencing myself as All That Is.
B: Thank you. Very good!
Q: It’s awesome!
B: Why?
Q: It’s a lot!
B: So?
Q: It’s great!
B: Thank you. Awesome means you are awed. Again: you are awed by deification of greatness. “Oh, this much be more than me.”
Q: Then I feel equal.
B: Very good. You are no less and no more – no more and no less. No need to feel less than – no need to be more than. You are exactly All That Is. It is that simple. Realize that being All That Is does not mean that you have to be All That Is, pompously. You may simply know that you are that idea, the love of All That Is. Now, let’s get on to living.
Q: All right!
B: Let’s get on to enjoying. If everything really is, “Why not?” then, “WHY NOT create peace and ecstasy? Since that seems to be what I would enjoy the most?”
Q: Yes, I’m sure that is what you do.
B: Thank you. As – in our eyes – you do.
Q: That’s true.
B: Then you really have no reason to experience anything else. And everything else that you do experience, that you recognize as not being quote/unquote, ecstasy, in your definition, is still a variation of ecstasy because it is always another opportunity to experience another portion of yourself. Which is always for us, an ecstatic experience.
There are no negative experiences, in the sense of allowing yourself to experience that which you believe yourself to be. If you fear to experience it, then you create the negative effect. If you live through it, always it is positive. Because always you will allow yourself to be clear-sighted enough, clairvoyant, clear-sighted enough, to be transparent to yourself – instead of opaque. Thank you!
Q: Thank you!