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Going general as rising a level

Posted July 16, 2012 by Olga and has no comments yet.

“you’re asking a question, to which you’re not ready to hear the answer, because your preconceived understanding, your preconceived notions about this are making you want this answer to fit into the small narrow distorted box that you’ve created, and the answer is too big for this box, you see. It will come to you, but you’ve got to let go of that box.” ~ AH

puts going general in a perspective..

A different view of life structure

Posted December 28, 2011 by Olga and has no comments yet.

I’m starting to see life so differently, and a thought comes: what if it’s built not the way I used to think?

What if it’s like this:

Some piece of energy :) decides to come to express itself in this specific physical form.
I’m being physically born.
In my physical life, the streams of energy I consist of (all the flavors, nuances of it), go forward and develop, expand.

Since my physical form, my physical mind, is of some inertia,
when these streams expand, I (physical me) stop being fully compliant to them,
which forms a gap, which shows as a physical problem.

(It reminds me homeopathy principles, do you know?
They say, when a Life Force of a person has a problem, it shows out as a physical illness, which shows, which remedy (!) should be applied: it should be the remedy, created homeopathically (they have a special system), from a material, which, being given to a healthy person, will give the same symptoms, as this ill person now has. It means, each physical illness shows out, what remedy should be used for it!)

And then when I remember, that I am a vibrational being,
I know, that I should align with the expanded streams,
and the “symptoms” of the “physical problem” just give me help in applying my vibrational efforts.

And then there’s no “guilt” on my behalf,
there’re no things that I “had to do and didn’t do”,
there’s no “punishment” in these “problems”,
just a sign, that the streams moved forward,
and that now I should realign,
to have a new, expanded, enriched experience,
and in general – to become compliant again to my bigger part.

But when I don’t remember, that I’m a vibrational being,
I see these “physical problems” as physical problems!
That I should fix! That I’m guilty in arriving to!
Because if I were “better”, these things wouldn’t have happened to me!

Wow.

Want some inspiration boost? Here it comes! :)

Posted December 25, 2011 by Olga and has no comments yet.

Another chef-d’oeuvre from Saskaya, amazing as we’ve already used to: :)

(“Abraham-Hicks – If you would feel appreciation frequently… ♥ Feel-it-Mix by Sas”: video)

If you missed the previous ones, here’re my favorite two:

(“Abraham-Hicks – Are you up to speed?”: video)

(“Abraham-Hicks – soothing, general well-being”: video)

I opened for myself this new coaching format..

Posted December 19, 2011 by Olga and has no comments yet.

..and found it excitingly useful:

we define “session” as two days of emails, back and forth, with my questions, client’s questions, my exercises, client’s results, summary. It gives both me and my client the time to do our vibrational ..play :) in a subtle, yet more thorough and expansive way.

If you wish to try it with me, contact me.

A revelation

Posted December 18, 2011 by Olga and has no comments yet.

I just connected the dots.. or the dots were connected in me and for me. :)

1. From yesterday’s post: “because in most cases the basic concept of mentoring says:
“I know something, that would be good for you,
that you haven’t figured out,
so you’re flawed in this way.””

2. From AH LIVE Dec 10, when we deem something as wrong, even if we don’t do that (!), it is detrimental to us, this resistance. (In the LIVE they spoke about vaccinations, and AH said this: if you deem them wrong, no matter if you do them or not, it’s still detrimental to you!).

3. All the comparisons I got these days:
“when you feel jealous, you diminish yourself” ~ AH
“when you don’t respect your choices, you don’t respect yourself” ~ Bashar
etc.

4. My all-the-time feeling, that something is not quite home, when I’m thinking of my coaching clients (or any people that don’t know anything about energies) as operating .. like blind kitties, they don’t know where they move, what they do, how to go for what they want, they come to funny conclusions, trying blindly to find their way to what they want.. without a map, without seeing clearly. I feel such a shame now, when I realize this.. I want to apologize to my clients and all the people I perceived this way.

But I’ve always been thinking, “but it’s true! How can I see it any other way? They do lack this knowledge!” (Again this trap of “truth” instead of “what is it that I do want?”, even though then it became “I want them to know it! I want them to operate with open eyes!”.. Now I see, it could be “what I do want, is to feel good when looking at them, interacting with them, thinking about them, speaking to them. What would it be, that would give me this feeling good?” Probably the first thought, the relief, would be “Maybe it’s not THAT bad, that they don’t know?..”)

And now I realized:

1. Whatever I’m doing, MY deeming it wrong, that they don’t know, is detrimental and diminishing to me. I’m suppressing, judging, not letting live fully, something in ME, when I’m judging it as wrong in them, in their life.

2. I can see it as a bigger picture: that ultimately it was their choice to live these challenges in this way. And that ultimately everyone is fine, and in this moment they’re living what they intended to live. I can offer them my understanding of the situation, if they wish to hear it, but it’s not wrong, where they are, and it won’t be better when they know what I tell them. There’s no hierarchy. There’s just life.

How freeing. :)

P.S. The video the 2nd paragraph reminded me of:

(“Bashar – Ultimately Everyone is Just Fine”: video)

By the way:

“it’s how you use it.
And that’s why we simply say, circumstances don’t matter – not to discount them,
but to let you know it’s what meaning you decide to give them,
that determines, what effect you can extract from them.” ~ Bashar

For coach, writer, therapist, teacher, parent,…

Posted December 17, 2011 by Olga and has no comments yet.

Amazingly useful. I feel like re-thinking, re-basing all my consulting, coaching and writing, based on this principle:

“Almost everyone is trying to teach people to change,
so that they can be more effective,
and there’s something sort of off about that,
because it implies, that there’s something wrong with where they are,
which is the opposite
of what you’re wanting to make them to understand.

You have to activate the rightness in people,
you have to activate your view of the perfection in people,
you have to activate your appreciation of people,
and that’s the thing that is most difficult about mentoring,

because in most cases the basic concept of mentoring says:
“I know something, that would be good for you,
that you haven’t figured out,
so you’re flawed in this way,
I do this for you because I see you’ve not been able to do it for yourself,”

and there’s such a vibrational downturn
in that basic premise that you begin with,
that most mentors never overcome it.

And that’s why most mentors gradually
move into just letting most of the people go by the wayside,
while they’re looking for the nuggets, and it’s the same old, same old..

And if you’re looking for the way to make a difference
that will give more people the edge of success,
then what you’re going to demonstrate is
not your ability to find them,
and not your ability to mentor them,
but your ability to believe the unbelievable.

That’s the big message.” ~ AH

Synchronicity, and leveraging Christmas

Posted December 15, 2011 by Olga and has no comments yet.

Yesterday on Facebook I found this:

Seth: The Meaning of Christmas From ESP Class, December 19, 1972
“Do not think that Christmas is too camp. In your civilization, when you allow it to, it speaks to the child in you. Accept the child and enjoy the myth, for behind the myth there is truth, and the truth is that you are reborn. And the truth is that the inner self does have the wonder of a child. “Other stories have been wound about those truths, but the truths remain. The god Pan has as great a validity as Christ has. The names change; the stories change to fit your ideas and your civilization. Now, I prefer Pan piping his magic flutes over the countryside and drinking wine, to a Christ born to be crucified. But that is my idea; you pick your own. “Behind all the myths is the reality. You are born with the wonder of a child again to remake the world in a new image. Christmas should represent the rebirth of the self. Seth Speaks should be called You Speak. So listen to yourselves. “It is fashionable to think in terms of Buddha and Eastern religions. And it is not fashionable to think of the infant Christ, for example. So you are `in’ if you think of Buddha, and `out’ if you dare to let a tear show when they play a Christmas carol. The same thing is involved. You are still dealing with systems of beliefs and myths that have grown through the ages. And each of them has their degree of validity and their degree of distortion. “Santa Claus – Ho Ho – is relatively harmless considering what your religions have done. If you are bad you get a hunk of coal, and if you are good you get a goody. But what about a god who says if you are good you will go to heaven and if you are bad you burn through all eternity? Place your indignation where it belongs! “All of the gods in your myths die and are rewarded from the time of your ancient memory, and through the ages of the memory of your race. So it is simply said again and again, in terms that you understand, according to the time in which you think you live: That you are born again and again, and the trials of the gods are your own, and so are their triumphs and their joys. “The symbols used are also colored by the times, and they are personified, so winter and the cold that sweeps across the earth are used to symbolize the death of the soul. Not a death, however, but transformation. If you understood your myths, you could use them effectively. When you think that they are reality, however, they can entrap you. “You are the stories that the Soul tells. You are your own stories, and you create your ideas of God according to your interpretation of greater realities that you understand and do not understand. You are catching up with your own understanding, but, as soon as you understand, there is more to learn because creativity is never still and never done and never finished. “In other worlds there are other Christmas tales, each with their own story and rhyme. But none of them denies the intense and eternal NOW which is being forever created and in which you have your quite natural existence. And none of it denies the joyful vitality that is your own, neither the bewilderment in your eye, nor the pleasure in yours. All of this is meant to illuminate the joy and ease of your own being, and meant to generate within you, if you will forgive me, that old Ho-Ho-Ho – the vitality and the laughter and the joy that is your being. If you understood thoroughly what I am trying to say to you, you would be laughing with me and enjoying your own grizzly beard and hair, and, as you looked around at each other, you would see yourselves as all ages, reborn time and time again and with your identity alive within you now. “The truth is not something apart from you. You each are truth, speaking and living in physical form. Seth Speaks is within you and not in a book. You are the book. Then joyfully listen to what your feelings tell you. Your thoughts and your feelings are both natural and both yours. And your joy is within you, Christmas or non-Christmas, Santa Claus or no Santa Claus, December 25 or the 4th of July. Your atoms and molecules shout with the joy of their own being; listen to them. Feel within their fleshy substance your own spirituality. “Look at the Christmas tree; your cells and molecules shine a million times more brightly. Your eyes glitter with far greater light. You are love in corporeal form. You do not have to look for it or wonder where to find it or give it in packages with bright ribbon. You are packages with bright ribbon. “Christmas is now and was yesterday and will be tomorrow. It is in you, in Buddha, in Pan, in Christ, in Mohammed, in an ant and in a frog, and in your eyes and with you, each of you. You are each, then, Christmas. You shine and glitter whether or not you know it. You shout `Merry Christmas’ even when you cry. You cannot deny your own vitality or being. “Let the vitality and energy, therefore, ring out through your own knowledge. Let it awaken within you the knowledge of your being. Dance through your own molecules and scatter your own petals! And I bid you all a merry Christmas!” SETH

And now I found this: