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Telling a New Story

Check this for telling a new story:

Here’s more about this event:

And also, ask Ewa Zender – she is participating in it LIVE now :)

If you’re not familiar with Bashar (he gives VERY powerful information), find clips on YouTube, and also here:
there’s a good summary of some of Bashar’s teachings.

To create your life along the path of the least resistance

Why it is so important and possible to follow your joy.

(“What do you believe…Bashar”: video)

Physics of intention

I heard it in that workshop and was amazed by the power of these words. Now I found it on YouTube:

(“Bashar – “The Physics of Intention” – November 21, 2010″: video)

Change will come.. the effect is up to your diving gracefully

Stepping into the unknown.. the lightest touch.. the love to who we are now.. so much in this conversation:

“We would like to begin this transmission
this day of your time with the following small story:

There was a mighty spaceship with a curious crew
exploring the breadth and depth of the cosmos
and as they would then come to a new world in their exploration…
a new planet… a new solar system,
they would then with their curiosity investigate,
interact… share… trade… exchange,
taking what they needed of that which was freely given to them,
giving back that which was what the world might need,
what the people on the world might need.

And one day in the midst of such an exchange,
the crew was asked by the inhabitants
of one of the worlds they were visiting,
“Exactly, tell us if you would,
with this great, great majestic ship you have orbiting our world,
tell us if you would just exactly how powerful are you?”

And the captain of the crew said in response to this question,
“Our ship can boil your seas… turn them to steam,
level your cities in the wink of an eye,
turn your entire population to dust in an instant”.
“Oh”, said the inhabitants, “that is very powerful”.
“No”, said the captain,
“What gives us our power is that we would never do such a thing,
that is how powerful we are… that we have this at our disposal
and would never use it that way… that is how powerful we are”.

So, like unto then, many of the circumstances
that rise up on your planet to face you… to challenge you,
you have many different tools at your disposal,
you have many different ways you can react and respond,
you choose at every moment
whether to exhibit the idea of power or not,
but heed the idea that while in certain circumstances,
you may from time to time think that certain actions
are demonstrations of power,
make sure you pause and stop and think again
so that you understand that the true demonstration of power
is awareness… compassion… and the lightest possible touch.

Because as we have said many times,
“That which is the greatest power requires
the lightest possible touch to get something done”.
A great deal of pushing comes from those
that feel powerless… that feel they must manipulate
and push things into the direction they wish them to go.
Those that already know they are part of the Infinite,
those that already know there is no power greater
than what they are already a part of,
need not exercise a demonstration, for they will know
that in their allowance all things will fall into place
and that that allowance is the greatest power
that can be reflected to anyone else.

In all your endeavors… every single one without exception,
allow yourself that degree of immaculateness,
that degree of precision… that degree of composure and wholeness.
And as the channel has recently discussed with some of you,
the idea wholly is to step into the void,
to step into the nothing… freely… willingly…
and most important, gracefully.

For as you dive off of that diving board of familiarity,
resistance in the dive will only allow you to hit the water hard,
grace in the dive will allow you
to slip through the surface of the water… effortlessly.

You are all on the edge of the diving board,
now, in this time and place on your planet,
the changes have begun… the changes that are happening now,
and the changes that will continue,
it is up to you… each and every single individual one of you,
as to how you will experience the event of every change,
the changes in and of themselves
do not have to manifest in any particular way.

Change will occur.
The methodology… the presentment,
the effect of how you experience the change
is up to whether or not you dive with resistance or dive gracefully…
but dive you will!

Because you have decided to dive,
you have placed yourself by choice on the edge of the board,
you have invited the unknown into your reality
and it has answered your invitation… do not fear it.
It is what you want,
it is what you have asked for,
it is what you have prayed for…

Do not fear the form in which it comes,
it comes in the form it needs to come in
for you to be challenged… for you to grow,
each and every one of you according to your kind,
according to your belief… according to your vibration.

Embrace the unknown… embrace the change,
within it you will find the rest of yourself.
We salute you for your courage… and your strength
and your boldness… to have chosen such a challenging world,
it only shows you that you are that powerful
that you knew your power would be sufficient
to handle the challenges this world presents to you.

Know that… behave as if you know that,
and you will see and feel and experience your world
becoming the world of your dreams,
as you become… as you become the dream of the Infinite
as you surrender to yourself… to your true self,
and become the dream you were dreamed to be,
so too, will your world become a reflection of that dream.

Let go your expectations and assumptions,
let go your definitions… let go of who you think you are,
let go of who you think you’re supposed to be.
Because, I will tell you this in all honesty,
you don’t know who you are…
you don’t know who you are…
you don’t know who you are.
And I will tell you this… that is exactly as it should be.

When it is all right,
when you are comfortable with not knowing who you are,
then can you truly be who you are,
then you can truly reveal unto yourself
who you really were created to be…
but only when you stop thinking you know who you are.

Is this possible? It is all right to not know who you are?
This is part of what it is to leap into the void,
for only then when you have allowed there to be nothing,
can there be something.

If you hold on to something then there will always be nothing.
If you let go and let it be all right for there to be nothing,
and stay centered within your being,
stay centered within your joy… not your fear
then you will know where you are is where you need to be
and you will not fear that anything can take you,
you will not fear that you must give your power over,
you will not fear in any way, shape or form,
even when you fear… you will not fear,
because you will experience the fear in a different way,
you will experience it as information,
you will experience it as self awareness,
you will experience it as an opportunity
to add to the knowledge of yourself.

You will experience it as one of the valued events of your life,
for you are valued and valuable and you must value yourself
or nothing you have ever learned from any of us will work,
if you do not value who you are,
then you do not give yourself the ability to use any tool.

The first tool is to be yourself
and let it be all right to be who you are,
whatever that might be… then you can change.

But remember, change takes place within the nothing,
you do not experience the shift itself,
you only experience what comes after the shift,
you only experience the result of the change
that takes place in a world of space and time…
that is the world of experience.

The change takes place in timelessness
and so there is no experience of it,
not of the actual change itself,
but only of how you have changed.

Let yourself go into that timelessness,
so that you may be free and flexible
to change anytime it serves you,
anytime it allows you to be more of who you are,
and then trust that whatever it is you become,
whatever it is you have changed into
on the other side of the change
is who you need to be at that moment.
Work with it… live with it… love it,
above all… love who you are at every given moment.
For only by loving who you are now
can you then become anything else you can become.”

— Bashar, Diving into the Unknown

Reading now

Bashar: Blueprint for Change : A Message from Our Future

I’m reading it little by little, very heavy for me. It feels like on every sentence I experience .. an upgrade to another level of me. :)

“Do you know personally, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that the being you desire to be, you are capable of being?

Yes, I know that.

All right. Then start using that certainty to your advantage. If you know you have the capability of imagining what you would like to be, understand, as we have said, that your ability to imagine what you would like to be is your ability to be that person, that version of you.

If you have the ability to conceive how you want to be, at the moment you conceive it, you are that person. But when you deny your imagination your reality and say, “Okay, I’ve imagined what I would like to be; now what do I have to see, what do I have to do, to become this idea?” you are placing all the steps in your way that it’s taking for you to get there.

Your ability to imagine that person is being that person — because if you weren’t of that vibration, you wouldn’t be able to picture it!

The events in your life can only be 100% reflective of the person you have decided you are. Allow yourself to recognize that your ability to even imagine there is another way to be, is being the other way.

All you need is a basic trust that at any given moment you have what you need; you know everything you need to know to be who you are being in that moment. As soon as you redefine who you are, you will know the things that person needs to know, regardless of what you’re seeing around you.

But these blocks within us — what are these blocks?

It is only your assumption that there is some mysterious “how” that needs to be known before you will act in the manner you desire.

You don’t have to wait for a reason to be happy in order to know you prefer to be happy. Create the effect of being happy, and you will attract into your lives all of the causes to support the happiness you have created … just because you want to. And just because you say so. Because you are the creators of your reality, there doesn’t need to be any other why or how. What you say goes!”


“Doubt is not a lack of trust. It is a 100% trust in a negative belief that doesn’t serve you.” –Bashar

Tools I use: “Circumstances don’t matter…”

Continuing the series, this I also have hung on my fridge. It’s created from Bashar’s teachings.

He speaks about it in one of the two his courses: Changing Core Beliefs or Beyond The Secret into Abundance. Don’t remember which one :) but both are highly recommended.

Part of the explanation you can hear here.

It helps me reboot like probably nothing else.

So, here’s the sheet I created as my fridge version: :)

Circumstances don’t matter.

Only my state of being matters.

What state of being
do I prefer?

Not this Or that –
this AND that.

My Present creates my Past. Here and now.

It, too, can be downloaded as PDF in Free Downloads section.

Billions of realities: Bashar, Abraham & BBC Documentary

(“Abraham Hicks: Billions of realities”: video)

(“Bashar – Infinite Number of Parallel Earths to Choose From”: video)

For me, it lets me allow easier what I want – “it’s not because what you change, will change the others around you. It’s that the vibration you change to, will determine which parallel Earth you’re going to.”

I do not change the people, I just change the set of my vibrations, and then go into the world, where it already is as my vibration determines. Gradually go. :)

This video is from BBC Documentary on Parallel Earths:

(“Parallel Universes – BBC Documentary”: video)

Effective compassion

(“Bashar Compassion”: video)

I love it how Abraham-Hicks teach, that to be of true help to someone, we should first go to the Vortex regarding them (but to our own Vortex! but regarding them), and then hold this position both for us (mainly for us), and them.

Give yourself a moment of pause..

..before you decide to see the situation as NO MATTER, negative or positive. Give yourself the pause to recognize, that it’s you who assigns the meaning to it. Then see why you’re choosing this meaning.

And also, my favorite quote (again in my words): “you’re never NOT trusting something, you’re never DOUBTING anything. you’re always 100% trusting – just sometimes, you 100% trusting the doubt.”

(“Bashar – Redefine”: video | mp3)