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Extended version of the video in the previous post

Accidentally clicked. :)) Do I LOVE the synchronicity :)) 2nd part explains what passive income is!


(“Abraham ~ Wants to make money without any action – Part 1 of 2”: video)


(“Abraham ~ Wants to make money without any action – Part 2 of 2”: video)

Acting the new energy out

In the weekend 11.11.11 Bashar asked someone, “Do you act on your highest excitement with no expectation whatsoever? Which action are you going to take?” They said: “Meditation,” and Bashar replied: “No, meditation is not the action. You know which reality you prefer. Which action are you going to take?”

This had me stuck for a week now. Because I felt that the actions I would want myself to take, are not ready yet (I want to write some books that aren’t flowing from me freely yet). The action feels “would-be-excitement”, but when I come to it, I understand, it’s not ready yet. And I want to go into a meditation, to raise my vibration, but Bashar’s “meditation is not an action” just rings in my ears, and I’m confused.. Yes, I know, I told myself, it’s MY Inner Being I should trust the most, and I should do whatever I think to do (what I’m inspired to do), but that phrase still was disturbing me a lot.

And it was until yesterday, that I just did what I felt to be the most effective in my state: a lot of Reiki, meditations, just bringing myself into higher vibrations, and then, in this higher vibration, I suddenly felt the difference vibrationally: meditation is an action to put myself in the state I want. While acting out the energy of the new reality that I prefer, is acting out that energy. Yes, if the meditation is not a tool, then it can be an action: sometimes, when I felt really high and calmed down, meditation was acting out for me, that now I can just relax. So it WAS acting that energy out. But usually, meditation is a way to it, and not acting out the energy.

Then I felt, that in the state of meditative realization, which reality, which energy I prefer, I can ask myself, which action would be expressing this energy out in my physicality. And I just felt some gesture that I can make. And when I’m now doing this gesture, I feel this energy of this reality present in my physical reality NOW.

It connects to what I heard Story Waters yesterday saying: the Grounding Exercise is good to be done at the end of all their meditations. The grounding exercise was about touching my body, face, toes, all the body, to feel how I’m grounding the energies I’ve been working with during the meditation, to my physical reality here and now.

So I am going to take this as one more very satisfying tool. And just a pleasure to be engaged in: :)

to ask myself, when I’m in a meditation, which action (no pressure! it can be something as simple as a little gesture!!) would express this energy out in my physical reality here and now. And then oh I’m going to do it.. :)

And what’s your take on it?

Delicious pieces from AH LIVE Oct 1

  • I developed my patterns
    before I knew, what I was doing vibrationally
  • when you’re appreciating her,
    your need for her to change is gone
  • unconditional alignment
  • you’re meant to be brilliant,
    you’re meant to be tuned in to the high frequency
    that your Inner Being is
  • you didn’t come to fix things that are broken,
    you came to create things that are new

Such sweet words

‎”When your desire for connection becomes your dominant intent …
ahhhh! The orchestration that unfolds before you
leaves you feeling loved and bathed and soothed
and tended to and known and nurtured …
In other words, evidence is everywhere.” ~ AH

Food choices: the new clarification

One more piece from this AH LIVE, I just remembered. Abraham called it “the best discussion of food we’ve ever had.”

When someone asked, how to choose – I want to eat that twinkie, I don’t want to limit myself, but I also want my weight to go down, –

Abraham replied (not a precise quote):

“it’s not that we don’t want you to eat that twinkie,
it’s your connection with Source that you want to matter to you *the most*.

So if your eating twinkie undermines your connection with Source,
then tend to your connection first,
and when it doesn’t, then do whatever your heart is pleased to do.”

It is so clarifying, I’m just amazed. No more torturing over any food choices. “Just keep your alignment the top priority and if you see something you’re up to be doing, is going to break that connection, then stop to align and then..” :)

More thoughts about the emotional grid

Now I’m starting to understand – when for my quicker getting what I want, the Universe brings me some events I see as “negative”, or I just look at what is and don’t like it, then indeed it’s my seeing this event/state/thing as positive or negative – is all that defines, what I experience later:

when I choose to see it as negative, or just don’t diffuse the resistance that becomes observable, then my emotional grid becomes THAT – these feelings of frustration, worrying, etc.

when I choose to see it as help on my way, as a positive part of the process, my emotional grid is filled with positive feelings of security, harmony, confidence, love, and then it is correspondingly filled, and I feel it – on the level of thoughts, feelings, inspirations and events.

What a perfect, harmonious mechanism.. Life is a miracle itself. :)

New notion from Abraham: Emotional Grid

A little about the new teachings

AH gave a new notion: emotional grid. Meaning, when we come into alignment with our desire, more and more, we establish the *emotional grid*, that is there to stay (at least, if these are the emotions that we prefer to have on that subject).

Law of Attraction then fills this grid with thoughts, ideas, events, people, rendezvouz, all the materialized stuff.

But the emotional grid – we’re responsible for setting it up. Actually, we anyway are doing it: regarding every subject we already have an emotional grid, just think about the subject and you’ll feel it.

And as is the quality of the emotional grid (quality not in the meaning of good-bad, but more of its emotional content), the filling is of the same quality.

Interesting, isn’t it?

When they said it, it settled SO well within me, as if they worded something *I* came to, that day, that moment, that minute..

And I realized then (indeed contrast rules!), that earlier I’ve been taking the “emotion as the first manifestation” more like a tool: that I come to emotion I want to have, and then the Universe “substitutes”, “exchanges” the emotion to the physical manifestation, and then I’ll live :))

Of course, I’m taking it to the extreme, of course, I felt the excitement and the woosh and the joy of the ride, of the journey, but when they said “emotional grid”, I realized, how much in comparison with that I took the emotional manifestation and the journey to be just a tool, that will bring me to the “real thing”.

(And it is me, knowing so well the joys of the vibrational journey, of conjuring the new emotion!.. I guess I’m more thinking now about some subject, where I so want to live the physical..:))

Bashar had this dialogue:

“Do you know personally, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that the being you desire to be, you are capable of being?

Yes, I know that.

All right. Then start using that certainty to your advantage. If you know you have the capability of imagining what you would like to be, understand, as we have said, that your ability to imagine what you would like to be is your ability to be that person, that version of you.

If you have the ability to conceive how you want to be, at the moment you conceive it, you are that person. But when you deny your imagination your reality and say, “Okay, I’ve imagined what I would like to be; now what do I have to see, what do I have to do, to become this idea?” you are placing all the steps in your way that it’s taking for you to get there.

Your ability to imagine that person is being that person — because if you weren’t of that vibration, you wouldn’t be able to picture it!

The events in your life can only be 100% reflective of the person you have decided you are. Allow yourself to recognize that your ability to even imagine there is another way to be, is being the other way.

All you need is a basic trust that at any given moment you have what you need; you know everything you need to know to be who you are being in that moment. As soon as you redefine who you are, you will know the things that person needs to know, regardless of what you’re seeing around you.

But these blocks within us — what are these blocks?

It is only your assumption that there is some mysterious “how” that needs to be known before you will act in the manner you desire.

You don’t have to wait for a reason to be happy in order to know you prefer to be happy. Create the effect of being happy, and you will attract into your lives all of the causes to support the happiness you have created … just because you want to. And just because you say so. Because you are the creators of your reality, there doesn’t need to be any other why or how. What you say goes!”

And now with the “emotional grid” it’s so clear: we just come to the emotions we desire to live, and we establish them, not as a tool, but as something we intend to live. And then the path is so clear: we just *be* it, conjuring (I love this word, Abraham gave it in this sense on Sep 24) the emotions we prefer on this subject, new and new nuances, we live the emotional grid, and Law of Attraction then fills it exactly with stuff, corresponding to the emotional quality of this carcass..

And then the “slowing down” by the need to speed up the process of the physical manifestation, by any worry about it, is so understandable, too: this worry also becomes a part of our grid! And is then filled with stuff alike. No wonder it slows the process of getting the physical manifestation we prefer, down: we all the time build the grid, rebuild the grid, build the grid, rebuild the grid,.. The Universe isn’t “slow” in bringing us what we want, it is busy filling the grid all the time up to its new qualities. :)

I intend in the coming days to upload the AH’s explanation from the workshop – it just was in several pieces, I want to do a mix, to gather all the important parts. Stay tuned :)

A way of *becoming*

Just a thought:
relationship without “r” of resistance becomes elationship (thank you, Bill Landauer)

just as
revolution without “r” is evolution.

An easier, softer, smoother way of becoming. :)

Just as instead of *making it happen*, an easier, softer, smoother and more trusting *allowing it to happen*. :)

Trusting your life

Connecting the dots:

“So really what we’re asking you to do, and it’s an annoying word, but it has such powerful resonance at the very core of your being, is to trust the process. To trust your Inner Being. To trust that where you are is fine. To acknowledge there is no wrong doing on your part. That there’s no misunderstanding or no misapplication of a process. There is no recovery from something that is amiss. There’s just you, in this moment, harmonizing with the resonating blending with the Energy of Who You Are. Softly acknowledging that it’s a big capacity. And in acknowledging that big capacity of this Energy, being pleased with where you are touching it and what it is achieving.

Here’s a way you could look at it that would be very pleasing to us: Standing, like your Inner Being, in your Vortex, utterly knowing the Well Being of you and knowing it so powerfully and you being so close in the vicinity of it that you can’t not know it. In other words, we know it so much that you just got to know it. And if you don’t know it, it’s coz you’re overthinking it. We just want you to know you’re close enough. You’re close enough. In other words, easy does it. Close enough and trust that Source within you. The Source within you, this Vortex, has got you. It’s got your back. It’s got your front. It’s got your past. It’s got your present. It’s got your future. It IS you. In other words, it’s real-time, vibrational. It knows all of the manifestations that are coming. It knows every step along the way. It could lay it all out for you brilliantly. It knows every rendezvous that you’ll have with every single person. It knows where you’ve been. It knows where you’re going. It knows Who You Are. It knows what you want. It knows where you are in relationship to what you want. It know that path of least resistance to get you to where you want to be. It knows all of those things. The Source within you knows all of those things. And because you can’t just hear it all spelled out this red hot minute, you choose to think that you ought to be doing something different than what you’re doing and we want to tell you: what you are doing is enough. It’s enough. It’s all you can do, and it’s enough. It’s all you can do, and it’s enough. Trust the process, it will just keep evolving.” ~ Abraham-Hicks


(“Bashar – How to get there”: video)

one of my favorite Bashar’s clips.. “Everyone goes to heaven.” :)

“If you focus upon something negative it does not necessarily mean that the negative aspect will become ever stronger / ’more negative’. It means the negative aspect will develop towards its own healing / integration: however it is the nature of life that what we perceive to be negative increases towards this point of resolution. This is because to integrate / resolve anything we must first come to understand it, which is achieved through exploring it – through diving into it.

The key point to understand in this is that something becoming worse in the moment can be the best path towards it becoming better in the long term. Through this understanding it is possible to begin to deprogram yourself from the socialized reaction that leads us to go to a place of fear the moment anything seems to be going wrong. Often people ask for a positive change in their life and as soon as it starts unfolding they put the brake on as the face of what is being moved towards initially appears negative. To release this reaction is the process of coming to trust in the unfolding of your own life.” ~ Story Waters

“To control is to be blind to the beauty of unfolding” ~ Story Waters

One of the best pieces, ever :)


(“Abraham-Hicks – Magic Wand, 1 of 2”: video)


(“Abraham-Hicks – Magic Wand, 2 of 2”: video)

An absolutely amazing segment. For me it’s an entire workshop in itself: it addresses a complete cycle in deliberate creation, so many clarifying moments:

* why do we want to do it;
* doing it for ourselves instead of doing it to fix something in others;
* not trying to acquire a better feeling thanks to some physical actions, but purely by a vibrational work;
* moving to a better feeling not thinking of possible physical actions that can be taken to achieve the “goal” of fixing the reality so that we look at it and feel better;
* moving to a better feeling thought by focusing on emotions;
* making it all about ourselves and our better feeling;
* when a physical manifestation comes, not becoming dependent on this physical event, still tending to the vibration,
etc.