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“These are complicated times,
you are surrounded by so many others,
who have so many different agendas,
and almost everybody you know,
wishes you were different in some way.
And if you let
their wish for you to be different
become your guiding light,
you will go out of your mind.
And that stubbornness you sometimes feel,
when people try to bust you around,
or when they try to influence you from their point of view
When you begin to feel that resentment rise up within you
All that means is –
You know that you have guidance that is coming forth from within
and you want to follow your own guidance
rather than trying to walk to the beat
of all of those drummers
beating around you,
each of them with a different intention,
and none of them able to tune in to the frequency
that is purely who you are.
You have guidance, coming forth from within you,
and it is our desire that you become the selfish being
that you were born to be.
People sometimes don’t like hearing that,
because they think that if you were really benevolent,
if you were really the kind, generous person that you’re supposed to be,
that you would put everyone else’s interests ahead of yours,
and that you would just meekly merge into their patterns
of what they want.
And we say, – compromise and compliance, and agreement, and cooperation – are all wonderful attributes,
we know you want to get along with one another,
but never let what someone else desires about you,
to supersede that signal that is coming forth from within you.”
— Abraham-Hicks, Telling New Story
I suddenly realized it now: when some friend is calling me, and I feel I don’t want to talk to him at this moment, or someone is suggesting that we meet, or talk, and I’m reluctant to give my phone number, even though our relationship is good, and he is a good person, and it can offend him,
(as Moran, http://tantralev.co.il, said at this seminar: “When you feel reluctant to say NO to someone, see it like this: by saying NO to him, you’re saying YES to yourself”),
so what I just realized – when it’s happening, I’m just feeling that he’s not a vibrational match to me, and so giving up to the feelings of guilt or pleasing, and speaking to him, I would accustom to this lower vibration, which is not good for me.
As I paraphrase what Abraham said,
“It’s their job to figure it out, and they are.
It’s my job to be joyful and I am.”
Good realization to remember. :)
In Telling New Story, in ever-repeating dialog about us sticking with the truth of it, instead of with how it feels, as the main criteria of thinking a thought, ABraham suggested adding after we say, “It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.”
I tried it today in the morning, regarding some circumstances in my life I was unhappy about. And it works wonders!! Immediately it filters the thoughts to only those that I really want more of, in my life!
And it also made me to look for the things there, in these circumstances, and outside of it, that I could really say “It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.”
Was it the Positive-Aspecting in its best!! I somehow never was comfortable with the Positive-Aspects process, but here it’s not just a huge pleasure, it’s also very very powerful. Immediately I felt a relief regarding that situation, and at all, it became for me much easier and more pleasant to think about things in my life that I appreciate (or could appreciate).
“Usually people are honest with me.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
They spoke with me.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
They sent me some good things.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
They’re very loyal to their company.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
I was able to call them.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
I was able to shout at them, first time ever.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life. Or do I? :) I want more of the feeling of the power that I felt, in comparison with feeling helpless before that. I felt some power. It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
Usually people I meet turn their good sides to me.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
I met so many wonderful people.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.
I feel so much better now. Such a relief. These feelings, these thoughts must be really good for me.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life.”
I also understood that Abraham would say, no matter what they do – they cannot create in my reality, they cannot diminish the abundance in my life, only I can do that with limiting thoughts, and I just did the work to come to better thoughts, so I increased the flow of abundance into my life, I’m so proud of myself, Amen to that. :)
One of the best processes I’ve found, ever.
It’s the truth, and I want MORE of it in my life. :))
Even though this quote speaks more of choosing (or not choosing) a “higher path”, I more resonate with this:
“It is what resonates in your heart; it is what draws you; it is the resonance of your experience, your beingness that you birthed into, that you have brought with you into this world. This is the realization of the freedom of what you are.”
Some thought is being birthed within me.. some realization. Like, I don’t need to be something I’m not. Instead, I could pay more attention to who I am..
Full quote:
“There no rightness to any particular role, to any particular path. You are not more right to be spiritual than a scientist. You are not more right to seek to help others than to only be concerned with yourself. It is what resonates in your heart; it is what draws you; it is the resonance of your experience, your beingness that you birthed into, that you have brought with you into this world. This is the realization of the freedom of what you are. As long as you believe there is any ‘higher’ path you are not free. You are instead caught in a mission to continually evolve an understanding of what the highest path is, and whatever that realization may be, so you must go.
That is not freedom. That is not ‘I Am’. That is to look out in the world and see it divided. It is to see it refracted across this belief in the existence of a higher path and it can only lead to separation and judgment.
You can be whatever you want to be. It is only from that basis that the question ‘Who do I want to be?’ is birthed. Instead of ‘Who am I?’ which presupposes that there is a plan to be revealed. There is no defined answer to ‘Who am I?’ You are ‘I Am’, Source, non-definition, clarity. What do you want to be? What do you want to experience? What attracts you? What are you attracted to? There is no right or wrong in this, simply the feeling of resonance in your heart. You are whatever you want to be.”
— Story Waters, Bringer of Light