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Absolutely amazing calmer-down, soother, Vortexer :)

I just started my morning with it.. I’m so happy. I feel it like such a precious gift for me. :)

(“Abraham – soothing general well-being -deconstructing chatter”: video)

I am so so appreciative. :)

Absolutely delicious – the feeling place of a beautiful, loving relationship

I’ve been waiting for THIS! :) And it is here! It feels so so good. :)

(“Abraham Hicks – Relationship Rampage – De/Constructing”: video)

Quit Your Whining :)

Together with these:

‎”Of course when you see good-feeling things you feel good.

But if you don’t allow yourself to feel better before that situation changes, this is that suffocating disallowing of who you really are.” ~ AH

‎”The idea of integration (going on Earth now) is that you have to have something to integrate! If there’s just light, – nothing to integrate.” ~ Bashar

‎”When we talk about the Art of Allowing, we’re talking about the art of living; about the art of thriving; about the art of clarity. We’re talking about the art of being who you really are.”
~ Abraham

“The tide is rising. Catch a bigger wave.” ~ Bashar, on 11.11.11 event

‎”In your relaxation,
there is the acceptance of your worthiness.” ~ AH

‎”We want to convince you that through life,
you’ve become this vibrational being.
And it’s finding alignment with this vibrational being
that is what true love is.

Finding your soulmate is mating with your soul.
Coming into completion with who you are constantly becoming
is the first and necessary step.” – AH

‎”You aren’t alive now to be normal or ordinary, satisfied with rehashing the past. Do not settle for a carbon copy of yesterday.” ~ Selacia

“There are thousands of potential partners for you who would be equal in the satisfaction value. You’re not looking for the one and only. And where the perfect partner lies is in your vibrational range between where you are and where you want to be on the subject, in other words, you’ve got to create the perfect partner in you and the Universe will match it.” ~ AH

‎”And ‘realists’ will call you delusional till the last breath that you breathe.
But your influence will be evident, we’re not kidding you.” ~ AH

‎”Are you Source Energy in a physical body? Are you?
Then why are you putting up with emotions that don’t feel like it?” ~ AH

‎”You’re supposed to feel good and you can. That’s it. That’s it. That’s it.” ~ AH

‎”We want your desires to be your focal point of joy.” ~ AH

“It didn’t go away,
you’re just in the process
of clarifying it more.” ~ AH

‎”And sometimes you have to get yourself in a jam,
where you can’t control the condition,
in order to discover your power,
and then in the discovery of your power
the condition shifts.” ~ AH

“People are running around in enormous and unnecessary fear,
being afraid that something bad will happen to them.
And at the basis of that fear is self-imposed vulnerability:
they haven’t taken their power,
they let conditions control the way they feel.” ~ AH

‎”You get it done every time you get the emotion of well-being.” ~ AH

“You didn’t come here to be partially alive.
You came here as life to express itself in this moment, and in this moment, and in this moment.
You came to revel in it, not to fix things.” ~ AH

‎”You can bring yourself into alignment within 10 minutes,
every time.” ~ AH

Getting lost will help you find yourself. ~ Unknown

and this:

(“Rocky Leon – Quit Your Whining (on the boat from vancouver island to washington)”: video)

my mix for this morning :)

Self-encouragement is the path to all things that I want

(“Abraham Hicks – Lose Weight with Self Encouragement”: video)

Extended version of the video in the previous post

Accidentally clicked. :)) Do I LOVE the synchronicity :)) 2nd part explains what passive income is!

(“Abraham ~ Wants to make money without any action – Part 1 of 2”: video)

(“Abraham ~ Wants to make money without any action – Part 2 of 2”: video)

Wow! It happens as I go! :)

In the previous post I wrote about taking action to express the new energy I prefer, but still, somewhere in the background it was also about “if I don’t take action, how then will it come to exist?” in it. Yes, I know, I know, it comes, it is so obvious, when thought “from the outside”, but inside, when the specifics seem to cover it all, it’s just so hard to accept. I was even crying a little bit yesterday, feeling “I need the clue! It’s hard for me not to see it at all!”, saying to myself on one hand, I don’t really need to see it now, and the vibrational work (play? I didn’t find an appropriate word for it yet. Maybe, “developing the vibrational project”?) is actually much more productive when I don’t see the physical solution, but on the other, my human nature (or probably as Bashar would say, my physical mind, wanting to be in charge), demanded some reason to be put on ease…

After going general, going with some meditations yesterday, some revealing, relieving and releasing, I said to myself: “I will let this reveal itself to me.”

But somewhere, I guess, the question still was there.

Now, checking the previous post in Facebook, I paid attention to “People You May Know” – it was impossible not to, one person (Ashley Stephenson) attracted me immeasurably, it was amazing, as if her energy stood out really really big time. I sent her a friendship request, and she confirmed immediately. I felt really drawn there.. so I went to her wall and found this:

(“Abraham Hicks: create money without action?”: video)

Day by day, I feel it more and more, how the Universe s caring for me, providing me with answers, just what I wanted, at just the right time.. I feel so love and responded to, and cared for.. I feel deeply loved. Thank you, the Universe. And you. :)

Delicious pieces from AH LIVE Oct 1

  • I developed my patterns
    before I knew, what I was doing vibrationally
  • when you’re appreciating her,
    your need for her to change is gone
  • unconditional alignment
  • you’re meant to be brilliant,
    you’re meant to be tuned in to the high frequency
    that your Inner Being is
  • you didn’t come to fix things that are broken,
    you came to create things that are new

Simply brilliant

To see, how the energy moves from anxiety and disappointment about the “success not coming”, to enjoying himself as a magnificent creator.. Ah.. :)


Attracting the Perfect Partner

Q: I’m a little stuck so if you can help me get out of the stuckness that would be great, since I’ve been working with this material I’ve been trying to vibrate correctly to bring in “my lover”. I’ve done the processes and visualized and pretended…

Abe: What are you really picky or something?


Q: Very picky, yeah…wow you’re good…yes…

Abe: Well the reason we ask this is because…

When the Universe yields to you the best thing that it can yield to you given your vibration, and then you say, “No Universe, this isn’t right.” You are defying the thing we just said you have to do. Remember we said, “You have to make peace with where you are.” And, we wanted to begin with you because we think that this is the easiest way to hear this, maybe of all of the topics that we could talk about. So did you hear us say, “Make peace with where you are.”?

So let’s say the Universe has matched you up – not with your “ideal” of the perfect relationship – but with what you are right now – a vibrational match to. Now, isn’t that always the way that it is? In other words, what you’re offering vibrationally is all you have access to. So if the Universe keeps yielding to you something different than what you want, what does that mean? Does it mean the Universe is making a mistake? No. It means your vibration doesn’t match your ideal, and the reason this keeps happening to you is because you keep giving more attention to what you’re getting and not enough attention to what you’re wanting. Now if you will try what we are going to give you here for, 2 weeks, this problem will be solved, so you’re ready for this?

Q: Yeah, bring it on!

Abe: So the Universe yields to you someone that, as you check them out, is not the match to the list that you’ve made, but within that person – it is our promise to you, because we can feel the clarity of the vibration of you about that subject – you’re about 85…86…87% in alignment with your ideal. So what the Universe is yielding to you are potential partners that are about 85 to 87% of what you want. But what’s happening to you is, you’re focusing upon the 13 to 15% of them that’s wrong. And so as you focus upon the part of them that’s wrong you hold that part active in your vibration, so the Universe keeps saying to you, “We’re giving you ALL that you have access to, not ALL that you’re asking for, but ALL that you’re letting in right now”. And the reason you’re not letting more of it in, is because you’re doing such a good job of observing what’s coming in and not such a good job of remembering what you want to come in.

So all that you would have to do, is begin with the next person that you spend any time with, making a list of their positive aspects, practice it before you see them, practice it while you’re seeing them, practice it after you’ve seen them. Activate within you that 85 to 87% that the Universe got just right, so that you are deactivating the part of it that isn’t just right and in doing so you clean up your vibration a little bit. So the next one who comes is that much closer, and the next one who comes is that much closer. And to each of them, you don’t leave them wounded as you cast them aside, instead, each of them -because you’ve done such a wonderful job of activating the very best that you see in them – you leave them in a vibrational place that they’re gonna’ turn around and be attracted right into an environment or a relationship with somebody else that’s right there ready for who they are you see. Now we want to give you one more really important thing about this, we hear, we can feel that you’re getting this – this is the next important thing…and we talked about this just a bit, briefly just now.

There is a tendency to feel different about creating the perfect relationship, than you do about creating the perfect 1-week vacation, because creating the perfect 1-week vacation -no matter how you got it – it’ll be over in a week. But with relationships you tend to say, “I have to create this perfect relationship and it not only has to match everything that I now want, but since it’s one of those “death do us part things”…

[Laughter and pause.]

BIG mistake – then, I’ve got to figure out from where I am now, with only as much experience as I’ve lived so far – I’ve got to figure out everything that I will ever, ever want and everything that I will ever, ever Be forever more. And we say, “Give it up.”

We think the perfect marriage vows would go something like, “I like you pretty good, let’s see how it goes.”


So take the pressure off yourself by acknowledging that you are an evolving being and of course you want to factor in to your intentions, “I want a partner who’s evolving too, and a partner who has the potential, a partner who, at the core is much in vibrational resonance with me, a partner who has discovered the connection with source and all of that, in other words there are all kinds of things you can intend. But please make a decision that you’re just going to be flexible and take that pressure off that says, “This has got to be forever more.” Just have a relationship 1-week vacation at a time.


And before you know it, you will have attracted into your experience someone that you’ll want to check the box, “I want to stay on board for another week.”

[Massive applause and cheering.]

And then you just keep renewing those vows,

“Wanna’ go ’round again?”

“Yeah, why not!?”

Q: Which answers the next part of the question which is, Why have I never been able to keep anybody past 3 months?” And it’s usually them telling me, “see ya’ later”, I’ve attracted in this great person and then…

Abe: But if you were focused upon the great aspects of that person, so that you were activating the best of them, and the best of them was meeting the best of you, they would never want to leave. What makes people want to leave is your wanting to get it so right that you get fixated on the parts that aren’t good and then you activate the parts of them that you don’t like that they don’t like either. And then they find themselves just not feeling good about life when they’re with you, not because there is not the potential for it, but because you have highlighted something in them that they thought they’d left behind, or that they want to leave behind you see.

There are no two perfect people who are going to come together and show each other only the perfect things, that doesn’t exist anywhere in the Universe. What there exists are multi-faceted beings who have many potential activation points, and the relationship that ensues between them depends upon what each of them decides to be activated. What goes wrong with most relationships is, this one gives that one complete responsibility for what’s activated over here…

“You don’t bring me flowers anymore, you don’t love me the way you used to”. And this one, usually, is giving this one complete responsibility for how this one feels. When you decide that you’re responsible about how you feel, now, most of that trouble dissolves in the ethers immediately because, now you have control of the way you feel, and when you have control of the way you feel, then you activate the very best in the other.

Now we’re going to give you something here that you don’t want to hear, but we REALLY want you to hear it anyway…wait, that defies law…


We’re going to give you something that you really want to hear, that you’re not ready to hear…wait, that’s a waste of time…

[More laughter]

Q: But I can hear it later on the CD…

Abe: Well, we’re going to tell you something that we know…

[Large laughter and cheering.]

[Long pause…]

Abe: Oh never mind…

Q: No, give it to me!!!

Abe: There are thousands of potential partners for you who would be equal in the satisfaction value. You’re not looking for the one and only. And where the perfect partner lies is in your vibrational range between where you are and where you want to be on the subject, in other words, you’ve got to create the perfect partner in you and the Universe will match it.

So what we’re really saying is,

“Pick somebody, and make peace with it, and line up with it and live happily ever after”. And don’t look back and second guess it, don’t say,

“Well…I’ve noticed something that I don’t like”. Instead say,

“I’ve noticed all these things that I do like, and as I fixate on them the best of me comes out and when the best of me comes out the best of you comes out and when the best of us are here we’re having a really good time. And who cares who else could have been in the party, who cares? It’s sort of like somebody going to a fabulous restaurant and having a delicious meal and then, wishing they were at some other restaurant having some other delicious meal and we say,

“If you’re having a delicious meal what difference does it make how many other delicious meals are there if you are having a delicious meal”, you see.

And so, there’s something that’s sort of stuck in the craw of so many of you that says, “I’ve got to find the best one and only partner”, and we say, “find somebody and make them the best partner by activating the best part of them in you.”

Q: Thank You.

Abe: Yes indeed.

Such sweet words

‎”When your desire for connection becomes your dominant intent …
ahhhh! The orchestration that unfolds before you
leaves you feeling loved and bathed and soothed
and tended to and known and nurtured …
In other words, evidence is everywhere.” ~ AH