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Delicious pieces from Bashar’s “The “I” of the Storm”

* Q. I freaked out.
A. Well, perhaps it would be better if you have freaked in, going inward.

* excitement is an overall organizing principle. Overwhelment comes only from resistance from takin on your natural expansion.

* Q. Sometimes it seems too complicated.
A. I know. But that’s what makes it most exciting for you. You like that degree of challenge. You can change that, if you wish to. But understand, that’s why you created these challenges.

* Do you see the version of yourself that exists in the parallel reality you say you shift to?
How does that version of you behave differently, than you are? Observe, how she is behaving, and mirror her. And you will be able to shift to that vibration.

[O.F. By the way, when I was thinking about it, I noticed, that when I’m thinking “what it is in the Vortex”, it is somehow harder for me to connect to it, because I perceive it as of hierarchy, as it is “better” than where I now am, and so it is “higher”, and I, like, cannot quite connect to it, take from it something. And here, when it is about the parallel realities, I suddenly find that I can quite easily connect to that version of me in the reality I prefer to live.]

* the best protection is in not needing any.

* it’s not that you’re learning to shift, you’re just becoming conscious that you always have been shifting, thus you can direct it consciously in the way you wish.

* when you arrive at a place that seems like a dead end, very often it’s simply an arrow, pointing in an unexpected direction.

* if you’re experiencing something that feels like 80% of your excitement, it’s not the idea of your excitement! that’s a whole different idea all together.

* when you stay in the vibration that IS representative of your wholistic excitement, even when not all the components are represented by that moment, by staying in that vibration you will receive the understanding, the inspiration and the knowledge, that will let you know the difference.

* you will come out of it a different person. You’re not there yet, but you will be.

* heaven is right here. Hell is right here, too, if you want it to be.

* when we’re speaking of excitement, it doesn’t mean only jumping up and down. Excitement can be also expressed as a state of balance, rest and peace. (I love it!) Perhaps, it would simply be more appropriately labeled your signature vibration, whatever way it wishes to express itself.

* anytime something like that seems not to be working for you, it’s a good indicator you’re using someone else’s definition, instead of the one you would prefer to invent. (simply brilliant!) :)

* Q. sometimes I have resistance to my excitement.
A. why?
Q. I don’t know..
A. yes, you do. You’re simply also resisting knowing that you know. You can amplify in your imagination, asking yourself, what the worst case that would happen, if I went forward and act on my excitement. By acknowledging it that way, you can paint a more clear picture of what it might actually be.

* Q. so how do we make that bridge?
A. by allowing yourself to express the idea that only by allowing yourself to be your true self by acting on our highest excitement and joy, which is your signature vibration, will you allow for the smoothing out to occur that will allow you to encounter anything you need to encounter, without resistance and without fear. (that was there for me :))

* Q. so how do we change those people?
A. it’s not about changing those people, it’s only about changing yourself and shifting to a reality, where versions of those people already exist in a way, that’s more reflective of the vibration you prefer. (I love the wording of it!) It’s never about the way for you to change someone else, because there is no way for you to do that.

(how not to remember Bashar’s “it’s not about power, it’s about clarity.”)

* Live your life story as fully as you can,
for it adds to All That Is in immeasurable and beautiful ways.

The CD & DVD are here: http://bashar.org/store.html#hurricane

I love this guy!! :)

Dancing to this now:

(“Rocky Leon – My Life is Fun (Loop) – with improvised vocals and guitar”: video)

What a song for a great morning! :)

(“Rocky Leon – Hallelujah (cover)”: video)

and check the previous post, Quit Your Whining :)

This may soothe you

if you have some challenging times.

(“Bashar – You Chose To Be On Earth”: video)

Beautifully said

“Gratitude is the state of being open to what is present around you. It’s receiving, being fully open — without judgment — to the state of what is around you. Energetically, gratitude is an invitation into the third chakra to take in the totality of the energy of that which surrounds you.” ~ Talyaa Liera

Bashar on unity, uniqueness and support

“..So that you can thus then be self-empowered individuals,
and thus by being fully self-empowered individuals
work harmoniously together
with other self-empowered individuals.

Because when everyone is truly
the fullest individual they can be,
that’s when you get true unity and harmony on your planet.

It is not the idea of becoming homogeneous
that creates unity,
it is the idea of truly being the unique individual
you were created to be.

Thus then by being that individual fully,
you contain the vibratory frequencies,
you contain the inspirations,
you contain the imaginings necessary
to allow you to see, how it is,
that your place fits,
that your piece fits automatically
with every other piece also being their true selves.

Just like all the puzzle pieces in the big picture,
are made to fit together to make the big picture.

If you try to be a shape you’re not,
you won’t fit.
But if you’re the shape you’re created to be,
you fit with all the other pieces beautifully
and create the big picture that supports all of you.
” ~ Bashar, in 11.11.11 event

Delicious pieces from AH LIVE Oct 1

  • I developed my patterns
    before I knew, what I was doing vibrationally
  • when you’re appreciating her,
    your need for her to change is gone
  • unconditional alignment
  • you’re meant to be brilliant,
    you’re meant to be tuned in to the high frequency
    that your Inner Being is
  • you didn’t come to fix things that are broken,
    you came to create things that are new

Was supposed to be in yesterday’s Beautiful Morning post

..and got lost on its way: I sent that post on the fly by email, and I guess, it doesn’t handle them yet very well.

Here it is:

(“Louis Armstrong – C’est si bon (1962)”: video)

Beautiful morning to you, today and always! :)

The gift you be..

“The gift you be is beyond all the points of views you have.” ~ Stina Devi Eriksson

Attracting the Perfect Partner

Q: I’m a little stuck so if you can help me get out of the stuckness that would be great, since I’ve been working with this material I’ve been trying to vibrate correctly to bring in “my lover”. I’ve done the processes and visualized and pretended…

Abe: What are you really picky or something?


Q: Very picky, yeah…wow you’re good…yes…

Abe: Well the reason we ask this is because…

When the Universe yields to you the best thing that it can yield to you given your vibration, and then you say, “No Universe, this isn’t right.” You are defying the thing we just said you have to do. Remember we said, “You have to make peace with where you are.” And, we wanted to begin with you because we think that this is the easiest way to hear this, maybe of all of the topics that we could talk about. So did you hear us say, “Make peace with where you are.”?

So let’s say the Universe has matched you up – not with your “ideal” of the perfect relationship – but with what you are right now – a vibrational match to. Now, isn’t that always the way that it is? In other words, what you’re offering vibrationally is all you have access to. So if the Universe keeps yielding to you something different than what you want, what does that mean? Does it mean the Universe is making a mistake? No. It means your vibration doesn’t match your ideal, and the reason this keeps happening to you is because you keep giving more attention to what you’re getting and not enough attention to what you’re wanting. Now if you will try what we are going to give you here for, 2 weeks, this problem will be solved, so you’re ready for this?

Q: Yeah, bring it on!

Abe: So the Universe yields to you someone that, as you check them out, is not the match to the list that you’ve made, but within that person – it is our promise to you, because we can feel the clarity of the vibration of you about that subject – you’re about 85…86…87% in alignment with your ideal. So what the Universe is yielding to you are potential partners that are about 85 to 87% of what you want. But what’s happening to you is, you’re focusing upon the 13 to 15% of them that’s wrong. And so as you focus upon the part of them that’s wrong you hold that part active in your vibration, so the Universe keeps saying to you, “We’re giving you ALL that you have access to, not ALL that you’re asking for, but ALL that you’re letting in right now”. And the reason you’re not letting more of it in, is because you’re doing such a good job of observing what’s coming in and not such a good job of remembering what you want to come in.

So all that you would have to do, is begin with the next person that you spend any time with, making a list of their positive aspects, practice it before you see them, practice it while you’re seeing them, practice it after you’ve seen them. Activate within you that 85 to 87% that the Universe got just right, so that you are deactivating the part of it that isn’t just right and in doing so you clean up your vibration a little bit. So the next one who comes is that much closer, and the next one who comes is that much closer. And to each of them, you don’t leave them wounded as you cast them aside, instead, each of them -because you’ve done such a wonderful job of activating the very best that you see in them – you leave them in a vibrational place that they’re gonna’ turn around and be attracted right into an environment or a relationship with somebody else that’s right there ready for who they are you see. Now we want to give you one more really important thing about this, we hear, we can feel that you’re getting this – this is the next important thing…and we talked about this just a bit, briefly just now.

There is a tendency to feel different about creating the perfect relationship, than you do about creating the perfect 1-week vacation, because creating the perfect 1-week vacation -no matter how you got it – it’ll be over in a week. But with relationships you tend to say, “I have to create this perfect relationship and it not only has to match everything that I now want, but since it’s one of those “death do us part things”…

[Laughter and pause.]

BIG mistake – then, I’ve got to figure out from where I am now, with only as much experience as I’ve lived so far – I’ve got to figure out everything that I will ever, ever want and everything that I will ever, ever Be forever more. And we say, “Give it up.”

We think the perfect marriage vows would go something like, “I like you pretty good, let’s see how it goes.”


So take the pressure off yourself by acknowledging that you are an evolving being and of course you want to factor in to your intentions, “I want a partner who’s evolving too, and a partner who has the potential, a partner who, at the core is much in vibrational resonance with me, a partner who has discovered the connection with source and all of that, in other words there are all kinds of things you can intend. But please make a decision that you’re just going to be flexible and take that pressure off that says, “This has got to be forever more.” Just have a relationship 1-week vacation at a time.


And before you know it, you will have attracted into your experience someone that you’ll want to check the box, “I want to stay on board for another week.”

[Massive applause and cheering.]

And then you just keep renewing those vows,

“Wanna’ go ’round again?”

“Yeah, why not!?”

Q: Which answers the next part of the question which is, Why have I never been able to keep anybody past 3 months?” And it’s usually them telling me, “see ya’ later”, I’ve attracted in this great person and then…

Abe: But if you were focused upon the great aspects of that person, so that you were activating the best of them, and the best of them was meeting the best of you, they would never want to leave. What makes people want to leave is your wanting to get it so right that you get fixated on the parts that aren’t good and then you activate the parts of them that you don’t like that they don’t like either. And then they find themselves just not feeling good about life when they’re with you, not because there is not the potential for it, but because you have highlighted something in them that they thought they’d left behind, or that they want to leave behind you see.

There are no two perfect people who are going to come together and show each other only the perfect things, that doesn’t exist anywhere in the Universe. What there exists are multi-faceted beings who have many potential activation points, and the relationship that ensues between them depends upon what each of them decides to be activated. What goes wrong with most relationships is, this one gives that one complete responsibility for what’s activated over here…

“You don’t bring me flowers anymore, you don’t love me the way you used to”. And this one, usually, is giving this one complete responsibility for how this one feels. When you decide that you’re responsible about how you feel, now, most of that trouble dissolves in the ethers immediately because, now you have control of the way you feel, and when you have control of the way you feel, then you activate the very best in the other.

Now we’re going to give you something here that you don’t want to hear, but we REALLY want you to hear it anyway…wait, that defies law…


We’re going to give you something that you really want to hear, that you’re not ready to hear…wait, that’s a waste of time…

[More laughter]

Q: But I can hear it later on the CD…

Abe: Well, we’re going to tell you something that we know…

[Large laughter and cheering.]

[Long pause…]

Abe: Oh never mind…

Q: No, give it to me!!!

Abe: There are thousands of potential partners for you who would be equal in the satisfaction value. You’re not looking for the one and only. And where the perfect partner lies is in your vibrational range between where you are and where you want to be on the subject, in other words, you’ve got to create the perfect partner in you and the Universe will match it.

So what we’re really saying is,

“Pick somebody, and make peace with it, and line up with it and live happily ever after”. And don’t look back and second guess it, don’t say,

“Well…I’ve noticed something that I don’t like”. Instead say,

“I’ve noticed all these things that I do like, and as I fixate on them the best of me comes out and when the best of me comes out the best of you comes out and when the best of us are here we’re having a really good time. And who cares who else could have been in the party, who cares? It’s sort of like somebody going to a fabulous restaurant and having a delicious meal and then, wishing they were at some other restaurant having some other delicious meal and we say,

“If you’re having a delicious meal what difference does it make how many other delicious meals are there if you are having a delicious meal”, you see.

And so, there’s something that’s sort of stuck in the craw of so many of you that says, “I’ve got to find the best one and only partner”, and we say, “find somebody and make them the best partner by activating the best part of them in you.”

Q: Thank You.

Abe: Yes indeed.

Beautiful Reconnection Affirmation + November Energy Forecast

“I am here. I am present. I am alive. I am passionate. I am free.
These experiences are mine to remember and experience.
I am everything and through living fully as myself, I will remember this connection, daily.

This world is mine to connect to as I choose.
This world is mine to experience.
This world is mine to love.

Nature is a force, and I invite myself to join with and receive of its power.
Nature is a force and I invite myself to love it and see it as my parent, in that it daily gives me life.

I breathe with nature, I breathe with humanity, I breathe with myself.
Never truly alone, never only human, honouring the spirit breath of life I am a part of.

I can be peace for myself and for this world.
I am growing in peace.
I am growing in love.”

Beautiful and useful, isn’t it?

It is from Lee Harris’s November Energy Forecast, as always, beautiful and precise, calming and reassuring. And centering. :)